
Life is a roller coaster ride most of the time. We have the exhilarating ups and downs, the curves where we have to hold on for dear life, and then before you know it the brakes slam on and the ride is over for us start all over again. A continuous cycle. . .just hang on for the ride!
Life is tough, but the Lord never gives us more than we are able to handle. Having faith in Him and surrounding yourself with a foundation of support is key to successfully handling the ride of your life.
Many of you know this has been part of my life the last 16 months playing the part of son, husband, father, and principal. In August 2016 my mom was in ICU and on life-support just three days after an outpatient procedure for kidney stones. She ended up with sepsis (blood poisoning) and the doctors gave her up for dead. However, after removing her from life-support she survived, but not without losing part of her left arm (just below the elbow), part of her left leg (just above the knee), and all of her toes except the big one on her right foot. After the double amputation and rehab mom was back home just before Christmas of 2016.
Needless to say that was a tough situation, but mom is as strong as ever and very independent using a wheel chair or walker when wearing her prosthetic leg.
Fast forward to November of 2017. The day after Thanksgiving my dad was admitted to the hospital and diagnosed with kidney cancer and immediately placed in hospice care. Eight weeks later he died.
In both situations with my parents I flew back and forth to Tennessee countless times to support and care for them as I could. My family and school community hung on for the ride too.
In between all of this I was named the Southwest Missouri Middle School Principal of the year and in the running for the state award. I had completely forgotten about it and then on Feb. 2, just six days after burying my dad I was surprised with an assembly to recognize me as Missouri’s Middle School Principal of the Year.
Roller coaster ride if I’ve ever seen one!
Through all of this I have been surrounded by a loving & supportive family in Dana and Seely and a supportive school community.
Through all of this I have never wavered in my faith. I know God has a plan. My faith keeps me focused and allows me to keep hanging on for the ride to continue.
So, if you are facing challenges stay strong and keep your faith. It may or may not work out the way you hope, but know in the end you will be stronger. Just hang on for the ride.
I know my ride isn’t over and that is okay. I will just watch my step when I exit, buckle up when I get back on, and hang on for the ride!









